Becoming Visible

Should I say these things out loud?

Several days ago I decided to let friends and colleagues know about my blog. I sent out a link and asked for feedback.

• And some advised caution about Isabel seeing this blog and suggestesd more anonymity.
• Another pointed out that the content suggested pain that would be better dealt with through other means; my slider bar is really in the wrong place and needs fixing.
• Some felt that sharing this unexpurgated view could be useful for others facing the same predicament.
• I'm certain that others are perplexed and perhaps concerned.

All of this is very helpful. Meanwhile Isabel continues and I continue in an automatic script that pits my desperate desires for her against the reality of what her disability permits her to see.

Although this sounds like a sad realization, coming to this bare bones conclusion may provide the best opportunity for finding a more productive way to support her.